Should I? Shouldn't I?

having headache now leh..
those 2 fellas kept approaching me.
wait.
it's not both of them, it's only 1 of them.
it's the male one.
at least the female one is smart to stop approaching me now or else she's gonna suffer a lot.

I seriously dun get the male one.
it's so damn obvious that I'm trying to avoid both of them lo.
and the male one dun fucking get it. I wonder why man.
example, scene 1,
me: *surfing the net*
him: hey
me: ...................hi
him: wow, Arsenal won man! congrats wei.
me: oh, thanks.
him: k la.. ciao man.
me: *no reply*
scene 2, where we met each other after EALD task 4.
him: *waves hi*
me: *ignores*
walaoweh, I dun even realised I was so mean man.
Fuck, I dun have choice leh. Takkan I respond to them and get myself hurt meh?

anyway, to the male one, please la.
no matter how hard both of u try to befriend me again, I'll not change my mind.
whenever I see both of u, I'll think how fucking stupid I was to court the female one for first 4 months (or 5 months).
both of u have to give me some time to get over it man.
I hope both of u will stop approaching me or else.. I have to confront u.
I dun wanna do it k.

or.... should I make my move 1st? Faster confront him and get problem settled faster??
but.. I will feel bad leh..
how leh?? just let it flow naturally?